How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

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Learning how to ask a girl out

Everyone gets a little nervous when it comes to asking a girl out. Even the most experienced and confident guys can find themselves apprehensive about being rejected or missing their chance. There are things that you can do to increase your chance of success and let’s face it if you don’t ask how will you know. Missing the opportunity because you were too scared to ask is much worse than being told no and knowing where you stand surely? While no one likes to be rejected, there are things that you can do to make the experience less painful

Do a little research first

While this may seem slightly ‘stalkerish’, in the long run, it might save you any blushes. Make some discreet inquiries and find out if she is available in the first instance. If she is married or in a relationship then you know that you can save yourself the embarrassment of finding out when she turns you down. She may not be into guys either if you get what I mean. She may just like the single life and not be looking for anything serious so don’t be surprised if you get rebuffed because she’s not looking for anything new.

Choose when to ask a girl out on a date

Pick your time to ask her out wisely. If you are in the middle of a busy club and the music is blaring, the chances are she is not going to hear a word you are saying. Alternatively, if she is engaged in deep conversation with a friend or rushing around trying to get to an appointment, you aren’t going to get the best response. You also don’t want to do it in earshot of your friends or hers. If she says no, you don’t want your embarrassment to be public.

Forget the cheesy chat up lines

It may have worked in Top Gun or another one of your favorite Hollywood movies but that’s not to say that every girl is going to be charmed by your pick-up lines. They may seem cool to you, but not every girl appreciates them as the first encounter with you unless you want to make her laugh. Don’t stutter and splutter with your words either. Work out what you are going to say and then introduce yourself, find out her name, ask her a little about herself, see if she would like a drink and then ask her out. You should be able to gauge in those opening lines if she is interested.

Try to show her who you really are

If you try and be something or someone that you’re not, it’s an awkward pretense to try and keep up and at some point, you will have to reveal who you really are. If you’re not actually who she thought you were then it could be a little embarrassing. Don’t embellish stories about what you do, don’t pretend to be really wealthy or a heart surgeon! It’s going to be very expensive to live that lie! Just be yourself and if she doesn’t like you for who and what you are then is she the girl for you.

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